A Cocktail for Murder: Narcissism and Misogyny

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So apparently Rodgers was diagnosed for Aspergers and the media wasn’t making it up. However, I still stand by my following points:

• Aspergers is a form of Autism, which has no correlation with violence.

• Because of said correlation, the Aspergers is not to blame for his crime.

• The media using his Aspergers as a scapegoat for his murders is sickening. Rather they should focus on the real issue at hand: misogyny.  By blaming killers for their mental illness (if they have one), it gives a negative perspective to those who suffer from the disease(s), and are trying to live normal lives.

Yet the Aspergers could explain why he had very few to no friends. One of the symptoms of this mental illness is awkward social interaction.  This obviously led to his loneliness and depression, but where did the narcissism and misogyny come from? According to his manifesto, his father influenced him with the concept of ‘if you’re attractive, women will come to you’. This was sparked in Rodgers mind when his father got a girlfriend no sooner he divorced his wife. Rodgers held his father in a higher regard for being such a handsome man to immediately attract women.  He also believed that once a young man hit puberty, opportunities of sex and pleasure would appear before him.

Rodgers was also brought up with the rich life: Hollywood red carpet premieres, the latest fashions, trendy hair styles, the newest gaming consoles, and many other luxuries.  He became dependent on this particular lifestyle for the best experiences of life and to mold him into a handsome man who could easily attract women, just like his father.  

He was determined to look the best, have the best of things, and be the best; thus resulting in narcissism. Narcissism includes a lack of empathy for anyone and an extreme sense of self importance. Those afflicted with narcissism are angered when they aren’t given any form of gratification (ex.: social status, sex, having a partner, having something, etc.). They also tend to hold offensive ideas of women, believing they are gold diggers, temptresses of sex who don’t deliver, and pranksters who like to get men under their thumb. This illness combined with his already negative view of women, caused Rodgers to evolve into a narcissistic misogynist; believing that he was entitled to women and intercourse.

Rodgers is an example of what men should not be, nor root for. He was a man who not only disrespected women, but brought to light the horrific misogyny in this world. I hope there will be a day when misogyny is tossed like an old shoe into a flaming garbage pile, never to surface humanity again. 

Autism and Aspergers =/= Violence or Misogyny

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Last Saturday I reflected on the tragedy of the Santa Barbara shootings. Within my entry, I have claimed that some sites are labeling Elliot Rodgers, the gunman behind the atrocity, as being written off as mentally ill. More specifically, Rodgers was supposedly suffering from Aspergers.

Aspergers is a high functioning form of Autism. It can often lead to awkward social interaction, repeat behavior, and clumsiness. These symptoms often start in the early normal language and cognitive development. Notice that nowhere in that definition is the word ‘violence’ included, but look at stories of Rodgers and you will notice that ‘Aspergers’ is splattered throughout the articles.

I find it sickening that the media would use such a scapegoat for something that they refuse to acknowledge. Instead of noting that what Rodgers did was out of hatred and misogyny, they choose to pinpoint it to a mental illness he doesn’t even have. While in other stories it was stated that Rodgers went to multiple therapists, we don’t know what exactly for. He could have possibly gone for the loneliness that he claimed he had, which was caused from his lack of friends and many rejections. However, his loneliness doesn’t connect to Aspergers, especially for the definition I just said. Plus wouldn’t the therapists have diagnosed him with Aspergers prior to the event, if not the first few visitations? And would the therapy and possible medication have stopped the shooting? We will never know.

Even some articles claim that Aspergers and violence have no connection whatsoever and they’re at the complete opposites of the spectrum. Instead, children who have Aspergers are often targets for violence as opposed to committing it. So rather than acknowledging misogyny and that it is incredibly wrong and flawed, the media chooses to use a mental disorder as a scapegoat. Not only does this make Rodgers and Lanza seem like tragic characters who were acting under the influence of an illness, but it gives a bad name to those who actually have this specific disorder. The media is damaging thousands of people who unfortunately have Aspergers, leading them to be attacked and discriminated against because of the “terrible things” their disorder can cause them to perform.

I’ve known people with Autism and Aspergers and to be honest, they’re no different from you and me. They’re just trying to get through life, if not with a little more difficulty. For them to be labeled as a part of a group where someone who couldn’t handle rejection well or felt like shooting up a school is just disgraceful. Those killers don’t belong in that group, especially Rodgers; who should be in a separate, acknowledged group of misogyny crime and not crime caused by a mental illness he didn’t even have.

Feel free to reblog, comment, and as always, feedback and followers are welcomed. So, what are your thoughts on Rodgers? Do you think he had Aspergers and why?